Posted on 4th June, 2017

For many women, there comes a time when some of the habits they had formed at the age of 18 are causing them problems.  Many sense they may be making things difficult for themselves, but can't always see precisely why.  Very often, a careful analysis will show that the root causes are habits they developed as children or teenagers which are dysfunctional.


Exanples might include poor time-keeping; erratic sleeping patterns; late-rising; procrastination; not keeping to agreed plans; persistently telling "little lies" as excuses; frequent binge drinking; poor diet; and so on.


Bad habits such as these can cause serious problems as time passes because:

(1) increasing responsibilities create more pressure to deliver good performance;

(2) with practice and rising seniority, we all get better at hiding our bad habits or becoming complacent and pretending they are merely little eccentricities.


Experience suggests that some woman in their 20s or early 30s may be especially at risk.  These are women who experienced a sudden change in their disciplinary arrangements when they were growing up.  The effect of a sudden and dramatic change in a child's disciplinary framework can be confusion - and the need for the child to quickly improvise her own rules of conduct for survival.  She may then become fiercely stubborn in defending such rules/habits; even if they are no longer appropriate. 


Worse, she may not even be aware of just how stubborn and irrational she has become in insisting that her bad habits are normal and part of her character.  


What can be done?


The Senior Tutor recommends an ABC check-up to analyse problem areas and looks for root causes in deeply-engrained bad habits that have become established over the years.


This in itself may be very useful, in part.


However, by their very nature, bad habits can sometimes be very difficult to control and eradicate.


Experience shows that traditional corporal punishment - applied sensibly, firmly and fairly - can be immensely effective in jolting a recipient into amending her behaviour. 


A key reason is that a spanking or caning both hurts and humbles.  A pupil with a really silly and immature bad habit is forced to re-evaluate her views if she finds herself across her tutor's knee with her bottom bared and being spanked.  In such a position she can no longer defiantly "stand on her dignity" - indeed, in order to salvage her dignity, she has to admit that she fully deserves to be punished and show that she accepts her punishment bravely and with good grace.













There may be other cases in which a pupil shows herself to be too complacent or arrogant to address a serious problem.  The situation may then have to monitored to establish the full nature and frequency of the problem.  After being warned, the pupil may find herself being "put on report for persistent misbehaviour".  This is serious.  A caning certainly hurts and humbles; and 12 strokes of a swishy cane given through a thin pair of trousers can hurt quite a lot.  Not to cause any real harm, of course, but to create a very subdued pupil with a fiercely smarting bottom that has some stripes across it for a short while.


A caning for "persistent behaviour" gives a pupil a very effective jolt; and makes her very subdued and receptive to changes in her behaviour.  It is, of course, very important that she understands precisely why she deserves and needs to be punished with a caning; and that she reconciles herself to accepting the punishment bravely and with good grace.  



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Hi Peter

Sorry for the delay, I had a chest infection but the antibiotics seem to have cured it.

If you wish me to administer a punishment, please email me:
Dear Sir,
We are now ready to go ahead.
What is the procedure please?
Thanks for your comment, Peter. It raises two issues.

First, should her punishment be carried out by a stranger? Sometimes. Being sent to the Senior Tutor will be very chastening; and will help her to take both the punishment and the offence very seriously.

Second, would 12 strokes of the cane be too severe? It may well be that a punishment of 6 strokes of the cane, followed by a bare-bottom, otk, spanking with the belt-strap would be sufficient.

The caning would be preceded by her writing and reciting some lines as to why she is to get the cane. She would then bend over to receive 6 strokes across a thin pair of trousers or leggings. She has to bend right down so that her bottom is as tight and upthrust as possible. This helps to make the strokes hurt effectively but the position also makes her feel very submissive.

A prolonged spanking on her bare bottom with the belt-strap will soon sting so intensely that she will feel her bottom is on fire. This can be done very accurately and without causing serious bruising. The implement is amazingly effective.

Note some other punitive aspects. Having to bare her bottom and lie across my knees will put her cane marks on prominent display. This is humbling.

The sting will soon have her writhing and squirming. This will show that her loss of dignity has become irrelevant to her because the strap is making her bottom hurt so much. Sooner or later, she will be pleading for the spanking to stop; saying how sorry she is; and promising that she will never do it again. It is important, of course, to disregard all such pleadings for a while in order to demonstrate that a good spanking is meant to be precisely that.

I am happy to receive requests to carry out a punishment provided that the lady confirms that she fully agrees that this is what she needs and deserves and wishes me to deal with her.
Dear Sir,
My overspending young lady knows she is in for it and accepts things have to change,although caned by me twelve strokes of the cane from a stranger does
seem harsh.
Is there a lighter alternative please?



Corporal punishment is generally given on a pupil's bottom... but what about her hands?


I am bound to say that I tend to dislike strapping her hands BUT this may be sensible for a minor infraction or minor misconduct in a review meeting.  The strokes should be light and few.


 However, there is another occasion when one, two or three quite hard strokes of a strap might usefully be applied to each of the pupil's hands.  This is before a caning.


The pupil has been told she is to be caned, and how many strokes she will get.  Even if she has never been caned before, she will be sure the cane will create a very painful sting across he bottom and she will be conscious of how humbling it will be to have to bend over and present her bottom.


However, her trepidation can be made worse.  She can be told that, before she bends over for the cane, she will have to very submissively hold out each of her hands in turn to get a strap across it.  Holding out her hands is a rehearsal for the more abject act of submission involved in bending over.  The unpleasant sting of the strap brings it home that the cane is going to hurt.


This can be a useful refinement.


It should be no more than that, though.


If a pupil has misbehaved and needs to be punished, her general expectation should be that she is going to get her bottom smacked